My boyfriend claims that I wear provocative clothing, and he doesn't like all the male attention I get. I've been dressing the same way since he met me, and he wasn't complaining when we got together.
Should I tone it down for him or just stick to being myself?
- Black Voices reader
Watch Mason Jamal and Rebecca Brody chop it up as they take on the issue of the week. Give your own advice in the comments section below.
I REALIZE THIS MAN IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND TO ADVISE AS TO HOW YOU SHOULD DRESS BUT WHY WOULD YOU AS A YOUNG WOMAN WANT TO DRESS IN A WAY THAT REVEALS YOUR BODY? THESE DESIGNERS TODAY WANT TO UNDRESS YOU AND SOME OF YOU FEMALES ARE LETTING THEM AND YOU ARE LEAVING NOTHING TO THE IMAGINATION.
THAT WAS GREAT ADVICE THAT THE TWO OF YOU GAVE TO THE LADY ON HER DRESS CODE. A MAN THAT CARES ANYTHING ABOUT HIS LADY FRIEND AND OR WIFE DON'T WANT HER ADVERTISING HERSELF DRAWING UNWANTED ATTENTION. A REAL MAN DON'T WANT HIS WOMAN ADVERTISING HER BODY PARTS FOR THE WORLD TO SEE BECAUSE THAT'S HIS PRIVATE JOY TO ENJOY. SISTERS COVER UP YOUR BODIES IF YOUR MAN ASK YOU. MY MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER USE TO SAY A MAN WANT'S AN UNCOMMON WOMAN THAN A COMMON WOMAN BECAUSE EVERY MAN KNOWS ABOUT THAT COMMON WOMAN.............
COVER UP LADYS; MY MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHERS USE TO SAY A MAN PREFERS AN UNCOMMON WOMAN THAN A COMMON WOMAN; GREAT ADVICE FOR THIS YOUNG LADY WHO DESIRES ATTENTION IN THE WRONG,DIS-TASTEFUL WAY......
Its very easy to tell someone yes or no, do you or change you. Also very weak advice to offer! I would suggest you have a real talk with your significant other about why this bothers him and what type of attire bothers him. There is a saying that if its on the shelf then it must be for the picking! There is also a saying that if its yours then it will never belong to another. In a time where women are decreasing their clothing and wearing more revealing clothing, it may come down to how much is over exposure? I personally believe a woman can be extremely sexy without being slutty and a man can be well dressed without being too pretty. Once in a relationship there will be compromises if the relationship is to sustain time and difficulties in differences. Communication and well developed partnership may be the answer. Sometimes flirting is not what you say but how you say it. Sometimes flirting is not what you wear but how you wear it>
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By: Juanasmith smith on 2/21/2011 12:46AM
wow what a dress, i like that and she looks so funny but hot.
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By: ron on 2/21/2011 12:47AM
I REALIZE THIS MAN IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND TO ADVISE AS TO HOW YOU SHOULD DRESS BUT WHY WOULD YOU AS A YOUNG WOMAN WANT TO DRESS IN A WAY THAT REVEALS YOUR BODY? THESE DESIGNERS TODAY WANT TO UNDRESS YOU AND SOME OF YOU FEMALES ARE LETTING THEM AND YOU ARE LEAVING NOTHING TO THE IMAGINATION.
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By: J.D. LITTLEJOHN JR on 2/21/2011 11:34AM
THAT WAS GREAT ADVICE THAT THE TWO OF YOU GAVE TO THE LADY ON HER DRESS CODE. A MAN THAT CARES ANYTHING ABOUT HIS LADY FRIEND AND OR WIFE DON'T WANT HER ADVERTISING HERSELF DRAWING UNWANTED ATTENTION. A REAL MAN DON'T WANT HIS WOMAN ADVERTISING HER BODY PARTS FOR THE WORLD TO SEE BECAUSE THAT'S HIS PRIVATE JOY TO ENJOY. SISTERS COVER UP YOUR BODIES IF YOUR MAN ASK YOU. MY MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER USE TO SAY A MAN WANT'S AN UNCOMMON WOMAN THAN A COMMON WOMAN BECAUSE EVERY MAN KNOWS ABOUT THAT COMMON WOMAN.............
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By: J.D.LITTLEJOHN JR on 2/21/2011 11:34AM
COVER UP LADYS; MY MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHERS USE TO SAY A MAN PREFERS AN UNCOMMON WOMAN THAN A COMMON WOMAN; GREAT ADVICE FOR THIS YOUNG LADY WHO DESIRES ATTENTION IN THE WRONG,DIS-TASTEFUL WAY......
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By: sdon on 2/22/2011 11:28AM
Its very easy to tell someone yes or no, do you or change you. Also very weak advice to offer! I would suggest you have a real talk with your significant other about why this bothers him and what type of attire bothers him. There is a saying that if its on the shelf then it must be for the picking! There is also a saying that if its yours then it will never belong to another. In a time where women are decreasing their clothing and wearing more revealing clothing, it may come down to how much is over exposure? I personally believe a woman can be extremely sexy without being slutty and a man can be well dressed without being too pretty. Once in a relationship there will be compromises if the relationship is to sustain time and difficulties in differences. Communication and well developed partnership may be the answer. Sometimes flirting is not what you say but how you say it. Sometimes flirting is not what you wear but how you wear it>
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By: dechosen smith on 2/23/2011 4:25AM
congratulation you win and nice interview young lady.idol lips
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