
Consider all the weddings in recent weeks: Alicia Keys tied the knot with her producer-beau Swizz Beatz, wearing a pretty Grecian gown that covered her baby bump. After a five-year engagement, basketball player Carmelo Anthony and television personality La La Vazquez finally sealed the deal during a star-studded New York City ceremony. Rapper T.I. and Tameka "Tiny" Cottle, who have two children, celebrated their much-anticipated wedding with three receptions. And then there's Martin Lawrence, who wed girlfriend Shamicka Gibbs last month; DJ Jazzy Jeff and his new bride Lynette Jackson; and Boston Celtic Paul Pierce, who recently married sweetheart Julie Landrum.
These celebrity weddings could have a positive effect on African Americans, who are less likely than any other group in the United States to get married. Dr. Shane Perrault, marriage counselor and African American relationships expert, told Black Voices that high-profile black marriages like Barack and Michelle Obama's are good for the community.
Statistics show that in recent decades, marriage has been anything but trendy in the black community. African Americans are less likely than any other group in the United States to get married. According to the African American Healthy Marriage Initiative, while 76 percent of all American families are headed by a married couple, only 47 percent of African American families are. And a whopping 68 percent of African American babies are born to single mothers.
Marriage is an important institution to promote, said Perrault, because of the financial, emotional and cultural stability it provides, especially when there are children involved. Of the recent celebrities who got married, many have children or are expecting.
So why is the black marriage rate so much lower than other groups? Perrault doesn't pretend to know the full answer to that question. But there's hope in the marriages that are making the news lately.
"The Obamas have put in the forefront a different model," he said. "I think that it's resonating. I think when you see T.I. and other artists starting to get married, that validates marriage. It's extremely important."
Beautiful Black Love
Recording artist John Legend (R) and Christine Teigen attend the Intermix Summer Rooftop concert at Skylight West on August 4, 2010 in New York City.
Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian attend Power Balance Goes "All-In For A Cure" at Drai's Hollywood on August 3, 2010 in Hollywood, California.
Actor Terry Crews and Rebecca Crews attend "The Expendables" Los Angeles Premiere at Grauman's Chinese Theatre on August 3, 2010 in Hollywood, California.
Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian attend the Casio "Shock the World" event at The Manhattan Center on August 2, 2010 in New York City.
(L-R) The Dream and Christina Millian attend Grey Goose Entertainment And BET's "Rising Icons" at 1OAK on July 27, 2009 in New York City.
Actors Will Smith (L) and wife Jada Pinkett Smith (R) attend "The Karate Kid" film premiere at Le Grand Rex on July 25, 2010 in Paris, France.
Swizz Beatz and Alicia Keys attend the Art For Life East Hampton 11th Annual Benefit at Russell Simmons' East Hampton Estate on July 24, 2010 in East Hampton, New York.
Christine Teigen and John Legend attend the Art For Life East Hampton 11th Annual Benefit hosted by Anthony Anderson at Russell Simmons' East Hampton Estate on July 24, 2010 in East Hampton, New York.
Actor Terry Crews and wife Jessica attend the IGN Celebrates "The Expendables" Comic-Con party held at the Float at the Hard Rock San Diego on July 22, 2010 in San Diego, California.
Actress Gabrielle Union and Basketball Player Dwyane Wade attend Summer Groove All-Star Basketball Game at American Airlines Arena on July 18, 2010 in Miami, Florida.



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By: Carol Diane Bond on 8/19/2010 10:08PM
Alicia Keyes and Swiss Beatz Love is made in heaven and Alicia you look like you are happy and baby that's all that matters when you're in LOVE.
I have an anthology of LOVE POEMS for you to speak to your man and he can speak them to you too. Stay in love cause money can't buy true love.
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Title: "Partners in Parade"
Author: Carol Diane Bond
Girl friend much love to you and yours.
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