Let's talk about sex! It can be exciting, wild, intimate, soul crushing, wonderful, silly, lousy, poor... the list goes on. We all do it. Some of us love it, and some of us don't. Most people orgasm, while some never do. A few are known for their sexual prowess and skills in the bedroom, while others have been tagged ill equipped. Whatever the experience, the power in the act and the level of enjoyment depends upon the people involved and their level of comfort with each other.
Setting boundaries is a great way to try new sexual exploits and the only way to set boundaries is through communicating what you like and what you want during sex. If you choose to be non-verbal during sex you leave your partner fumbling in the dark, trying to find the light switch that will turn you on. Sex becomes a chore in which one person works to find that mysterious orgasmic button, when it should be a journey through pleasure.
Create a safe word so that either partner can tag out if they decide he or she is not ready to try something new. It's your fantasy, so if you decide that it doesn't turn you on once it becomes real, then toss out your safe word and pick something else to try. Setting boundaries creates a safe environment for everyone to explore new levels of sexual satisfaction without fear, so grab your partner, shed your inhibitions and get busy!
Rebecca Brody is a Relationship Coach in New York City. She is the creator of She Caught the Crazy! If you need relationship advice or want to work with Coach Brody contact Brody@TheLuvCoach.com or go to www.TheLuvCoach.com. For more crazy stories visit www.SheCaughtTheCrazy.com