How to Go From Hook-Up to Long Term

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How to Go From Hook-Up to Long Term

By Lucette Jefferson on May 29th 2010 6:00AM
Filed under: Dating, Relationships

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From Hello Beautiful: Casual dating -- it's fun, exciting, and a great way to get back in the saddle. But what if the saddle turns into the sack? Getting physical with someone isn't necessarily a bad thing. Two consenting adults may really enjoy each other's company. But what if you thought you just wanted a fling, only to discover that you're really falling for the guy?

1. Spend time doing other things together. Make plans for the two of you to do something such as take a walk, visit a museum, etc. In other words, begin dating. Through sharing conversation and laughs, you can build intimacy.

2. Keep your distance. Try not to be as available as you were before, and create some mystery. This actually draws people in, and makes you more desirable.

See more ways to hit the reset button @ Hello Beautiful

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