
When it comes to STD's and dating the rule is full disclosure. If you truly care for someone then you need to let them know your sexual history. This will allow them to make the best decision for themselves as to how to proceed with your sexual relationship. If you plan to have unprotected sex you need to get tested for HIV/AIDS. STD's are not to be approached lightly, so have a candid talk with your partner about your STD history, and gather together information for them about any STD you have or may had. If he has had any STD's, research them, and make sure to talk to a doctor and get tested before you decide to have unprotected sex.
I have been seeing this woman for almost two months, and we have not had sex. She wants to do it, but I have asked her to wait. I have herpes, and I want to let her know that I do before we sleep together. I want to make sure that she is safeguarded from getting the disease. How do I make sure that she is protected?

You and your partner need to have open and honest communication about herpes so you can work together to prevent transmission. You need to feel comfortable telling your partner when you feel an outbreak coming on. Provide some literature for her about herpes, and allow her time to adjust to the idea of herpes. Explain to her that you can have sex in between outbreaks using a condom or dental dam (female condom), and that when you have an outbreak you can practice non-coital sex, or sex without penetration. All relationships face challenges, but by being open about your herpes you are fostering communication, respect and trust. These are three of the most important bricks in laying the foundation to a healthy relationship.
Tips for STD Prevention
Fighting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) is important, because STDs can put women at greater risk for:
- Cervical cancer
- Pregnancy
- Heart disease
What is the best way to react to the news that you have an STD?
- Panic
- Denial
- Seek proper treatment
Should you wait until you or a loved one have symptoms to plan for reproductive health?
- Yes
- No
- I'm not sure
While HPV can cause cervical cancer, Chlamydia can lead to:
- Kidney disease
- Infertility
- Lung problems
The CDC recommends vaccination against HPV for women and girls between the ages of 11 and 26. What is the name of the HPV vaccine?
- JAMA
- Elsevier
- Gardasil
Is there any way to completely prevent STDs?
- Yes
- No
- I'm not sure
If you cannot abstain from sex, which contraceptive can protect you from many STDs?
- Birth control pills
- Condoms
- The IUD
How often do you need to use a condom for effective protection?
- Most of the time
- All the time
- Only with strangers
Does a woman have other options if she cannot get her partner to use a condom?
- Yes
- No
- I'm not sure
What is the most important thing for a teen to remember about STDs?
- Get tested and practice prevention
- Don't worry, be happy
- Only have sex with trusted partners


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By: clarity3233 on 2/10/2009 8:06AM
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By: Doug Sturlingh on 3/20/2009 8:09PM
I am the inventor of the AIDS Condom/Genital Shield,this protection prevents all types of transmission from STD's.I will give you a description of this invention. I would like to describe it to you in detail, so you understand the originality of it. First realize that there are two patent pending inventions which make up this protection, each invention performs a different function and together form the complete reversal of STD's and male inadequacy.
The AIDS Condom was created originally to combat pre-ejaculation or an inability to hold and maintain an erection. It was created with the knowledge of the internal workings of the penis. Men with this inability have poor self esteem and low confidence. The construction is simple enough. From the tip of the condom down three inches it looks like a regular condom, this is where the similarity ends. For the next inch and a half the skin of the condom doubles in thickness. Below this point the skin triples in thickness ending slightly before the penile base. The thickness of the condom skin is not on the outer but on the inner skin narrowing the base of the condom supporting his erection and starting the constriction sensation, making it impossible to slip off.This triple thickness is connected to a built-in blood constrictor. This constrictor clamps inward and around the penile base holding in blood yet allowing blood to flow out as well. This constrictor is not thickly ringed(like a cock ring) instead it is thinly ringed(making it easy to roll up or down for use and packaging) for connection to the Genital Shield. A condom performing its function of pregnancy and disease protection, makes up 100% of the condoms made today, 90% of these condoms perform just this function. The other 10% was invented and created to perform as a pleasure device giving him and his partner pleasure from penetrative movement. Whether it be these 10% or the other 90% they don't give a man physical or emotional support, they rely solely on "his" ability to pleasure his mate. With the AIDS Condom pulled down into place, a man immediately experiences delight and heightened confidence removing previous feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem. Making it beneficial for all men just by using it.
The AIDS Condom is quickly and easily connected to the Genital Shield. This shield is molded to completely cover a man's genital region. This region starts from just above the pubic hair line, around the upper inner thighs along his groin and cupping(built in cup) his testicles/scrotum. To put the shield on all he has to do is insert his erection through the opening in the front of the shield and then slide down the AIDS Condom so the constrictor slides into the capture. The bottom of the capture is already touching his penile skin before connection. When the two are connected this constriction performs two functions. The first being that transmission of any/all STD's can no longer happen because the shield becomes an impassible barrier against disease, because there is no exposed skin .The second function is what holds this protection to his body. The shield is lightweight and thinly molded yet flexible. The opening in the shield can be produced incorporating different diameters providing protection for all sized men. Once a man puts this protection on, for the first time he realizes he can now be a great lover without fear of contracting any STD's. All over the globe, people can start getting back to normal human sexual relations without fear of contracting any STD's.
Throughout recorded history, there have been inventions that changed how people interact those being the wheel, the electric light, the telephone, the computer and this multi-functional global disease protection now joining the list. Although, this invention is still in the patent pending stage, I want to get it out to the people as fast as possible. This is why I have decided to outright sell my patent rights to a corporation who will quickly start the global salvation/distribution ending stigma, alienation,suffering and dispair.
I welcome your interest and discussions about this most needed disease protection. Thank you for your time and patience, I look forward to your communications.
Sincerely,
Doug Sturlingh
I also have a website www.aidscondomgenitalshield.com if you can't access it try www.herpesshield.com it will redirect you.
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By: Doug Sturlingh on 3/21/2009 7:36PM
I am the inventor of the AIDS Condom/Genital Shield.What this protection does is prevent the transmission of all STD's.There was a slanderous article written by the miami new times.I am presenting you this accurate and informative letter because I believe people deserve a choice.This choice being that anyone with an STD can't spread it and a person without can stay that way just by using it.
I would like to describe it to you in detail, so you understand the originality of it. First realize that there are two patent pending inventions which make up this protection, each invention performs a different function and together form the complete reversal of STD's and male inadequacy.
The AIDS Condom was created originally to combat pre-ejaculation or an inability to hold and maintain an erection. It was created with the knowledge of the internal workings of the penis. Men with this inability have poor self esteem and low confidence. The construction is simple enough. From the tip of the condom down three inches it looks like a regular condom, this is where the similarity ends. For the next inch and a half the skin of the condom doubles in thickness. Below this point the skin triples in thickness ending slightly before the penile base. The thickness of the condom skin is not on the outer but on the inner skin narrowing the base of the condom supporting his erection and starting the constriction sensation, making it impossible to slip off.This triple thickness is connected to a built-in blood constrictor. This constrictor clamps inward and around the penile base holding in blood yet allowing blood to flow out as well. This constrictor is not thickly ringed(like a cock ring) instead it is thinly ringed(making it easy to roll up or down for use and packaging) for connection to the Genital Shield. A condom performing its function of pregnancy and disease protection, makes up 100% of the condoms made today, 90% of these condoms perform just this function. The other 10% was invented and created to perform as a pleasure device giving him and his partner pleasure from penetrative movement. Whether it be these 10% or the other 90% they don't give a man physical or emotional support, they rely solely on "his" ability to pleasure his mate. With the AIDS Condom pulled down into place, a man immediately experiences delight and heightened confidence removing previous feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem. Making it beneficial for all men just by using it.
The AIDS Condom is quickly and easily connected to the Genital Shield. This shield is molded to completely cover a man's genital region. This region starts from just above the pubic hair line, around the upper inner thighs along his groin and cupping(built in cup) his testicles/scrotum. To put the shield on all he has to do is insert his erection through the opening in the front of the shield and then slide down the AIDS Condom so the constrictor slides into the capture. The bottom of the capture is already touching his penile skin before connection. When the two are connected this constriction performs two functions. The first being that transmission of any/all STD's can no longer happen because the shield becomes an impassible barrier against disease, because there is no exposed skin .The second function is what holds this protection to his body. The shield is lightweight and thinly molded yet flexible. The opening in the shield can be produced incorporating different diameters providing protection for all sized men. Once a man puts this protection on, for the first time he realizes he can now be a great lover without fear of contracting any STD's. All over the globe, people can start getting back to normal human sexual relations without fear of contracting any STD's.
Throughout recorded history, there have been inventions that changed how people interact those being the wheel, the electric light, the telephone, the computer and this multi-functional global disease protection now joining the list. Although, this invention is still in the patent pending stage, I want to get it out to the people as fast as possible. This is why I have decided to outright sell my patent rights to a corporation who will quickly start the global salvation/distribution ending stigma, alienation,suffering and dispair.
I welcome your interest and discussions about this most needed disease protection. Thank you for your time and patience, I look forward to your communications.
I also have a website www.aidscondomgenitalshield.com if you cannot access try www.herpesshield.com you will be redirected.
Sincerely,
Doug Sturlingh
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